Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Thursday, October 30, 2008

A word from your sponsors...

Living in California, jen and I are deeply affected by one of the propositions this year. There are a lot of people trying to pass Prop 8, which will eliminate our right to get married if we ever choose to do so. Not cool...right?  

I know I mentioned it in a previous blog, but as we're getting closer to the election, jen and I started feeling more and more like we should do something. We've donated money. We've attended fundraisers. We've talked to our friends and family. Jen's been phone-banking. I sport my "I heart civil liberties" shirt around town.  

But it still didn't feel like we were doing enough. So last week we got an idea. "Let's make a video!" Now I haven't edited in years. Actually, I don't think I've even taken my video camera out of its case in years, which is truly a shame because I used to have such a passion for making home videos. Growing up I drove my friends and family crazy always having a camera in their face. But I guess now that I work in the industry, I have taken up other hobbies to escape the media in my free time. But the thought of making THIS video really reignited my passion.

It reignited it so much, we went out and bought a new computer over the weekend, new editing software, and came up with a concept for our video. We shot it Monday night.  I couldn't even sleep that night I was so excited to get started editing. I worked vigorously Tuesday and Wednesday night to get it finished in time to upload it before people started voting. We were both so inspired by the situation and felt so proud when we posted it to YouTube this morning. 

 


We've gotten so much positive feedback. Numerous people have told us that it made them tear up. And when we were eating dinner tonight, Francy, our neighbor and friend, knocked on the door and was bawling when we answered it. She had just watched the video and was so proud of us and couldn't wait to forward it to her family and friends in California. I still can't get over how our little video is affecting people. It's truly heartwarming. 

I personally had a hard time posting the video at first. After it all came together, it was so personal. People would see things about us. See our lives. See how upset we are about this proposition. But then, that's the point right? Getting our message heard. Making it personal. And as of tonight, we've gotten 260 views on YouTube! So, if you subtract the 20 times that I'm sure jen watched it, that leaves 240 people that we urged to Vote NO on Prop 8...all because of a girl...a dream...and a video camera. 

And now that we've caught the bug, you can expect more videos from us in the future. Turns out we've got plenty to talk about...and at least 240 people that want to listen. 

*Addendum...we're up to 329 now!  And jen promises it wasn't her.

Friday, July 25, 2008

The Year of the Wedding


So 2008 will pretty much be T
he Year of the Wedding for us. We started off our wed-crawl at Amy & Bill's wedding in June. They had the most amazing ceremony & reception at Cicada Restaurant in Downtown Los Angeles. Talk about a wedding! The food was out of this world. The music, the dancing, the friends, THE CUPCAKES! And seeing Amy that happy was truly a gift.

Next, we're looking forward to Sonya & Jeff's wedding in Monterey, CA over Labor Day Weekend. (aka JAMIE'S BIRTHDAY!)  We're going to make a great vacation out of it, driving up the coast, camping and hiking in Big Sur, and relaxing at a B&B right on the water in Monterey.



After that, we've got Grayce & Jason's wedding in December...




And ALLYSON & EMMERY'S soon after!  Look at that rock!  





With so many of our friends saying "I Do" this year, love is definitely in the air.  We're so happy for everyone.  But of course it sparks the question... what about us???  

Currently in California, same-sex marriages are legal...for the moment.  But this November, Californians will vote on Prop 8, a ban on marriage for gay and lesbian couples in Cali.  Prop 8 is trying to amend the California constitution to only recognize marriage "between a man and a woman."  Pretty dumb, huh? 

So for all our left coast friends, vote "NO" on Proposition 8, and we promise you'll be invited to the wedding...in 5 or 10 years of course.  ;)  


Until then, our biggest drama is figuring out how many times we can actually get away with wearing the same dress/sweater vest to multiple weddings.